Mixing High & Low
When it comes to things to do in Montauk, there’s a great mix of high and low. Unlike the perfectionist polish and boat shoe glamour of East Hampton, Montauk offers a blend of upscale and casual dining options, and the main drag feels more like a beach town than a seaside version of Fifth Avenue or the village. Sure, it’s far more trendy than it was before it became an extension of the Hamptons scene, but it still boasts a more laidback energy that we took advantage of, at local haunts that stand the test of time among locals and visitors alike.
Getting to Montauk
A New York Times article described Montauk in the old days as quieter, less traveled, and “off-puttingly remote.” Well today, I must report that it’s STILL a little off-puttingly remote! That said, a couple tips for getting to Montauk from New York:- If not traveling by car, you can take a train (Montauk line of the Long Island Railroad from Penn Station) or the Jitney (a bus). If traveling by train, there are serious crowds that fill up on the platform, making seats hard to come by sometimes. On the Jitney, you may hit some traffic, making it a little less predictable than the train.
- If driving, the best time to leave is either very early morning, or late at night. We left Jersey City at 9:30 PM on Thursday evening to make the 3 hour drive. While it may seem crazy to arrive at your destination well after midnight, there were still plenty of cars headed in the same direction, and we were happy to have avoided worse traffic.
That said, I was very much excited to don my own big sunglasses and see what all the hype was about! (With our larger, non-stowable dog in tow.)
Staying in Montauk
All I can say about accommodations anywhere in Montauk or the Hamptons is $$$$$$. Like, CRAZY prices for Airbnbs, hotels, and even motels. Book early or find friends with a spare room if you can. Our cousins have a condo there, which made our last minute trip possible. We all squeezed into the place, along with my parents’ RV (if you have or would like to rent an RV, RV campgrounds can be an inexpensive option for staying in the area; just book very early). This is perhaps the biggest reason why it’s taken 20 years for us to go back! That said, plenty of people do manage to find relatively reasonable accommodations there. One way to enjoy it is to go around this time of year––after Labor Day, when the weather is still warm and the prices aren’t as inflated.Things to Do in Montauk & the Hamptons
(as told by The Woks of Life) We wanted to check out everything the area has to offer: beaches, seafood, farm stands, restaurants, fishing, hiking, and shopping. Here’s what we did and where we went!1. Montauk Point Lighthouse
The Montauk Point Lighthouse is located in a state park with a little museum offering fun facts about how Montauk was settled and its longstanding military and fishing history.
There’s great views of the shoreline, and if you plan ahead, you can time your entry to climb to the top of the lighthouse. What I enjoyed the most was reading about women entering the fishing scene and these two bad@$$ ladies that caught some really really really big fish.
When you’re done with the museum, you can walk down to the craggy beach, and there’s a short trail as well.
2. Local Farm Stands
There were lots of local farm stands that we drove by. Ones like Amber Waves are more established and have little markets where you can buy produce and other local goods (you may have heard them name-dropped by Ina Garten! More on her in a bit…Can’t write about the Hamptons and NOT talk about Ina!!!)
We stopped by a more anonymous one, drawn in by sunflowers.
My sister ran into an old coworker, and as my mom put it, there’s nothing quite like seeing and being seen in the Hamptons…
3. Lunch at Lunch
So we technically had a really late lunch that could have been dinner (despite an existing dinner reservation), but we HAD to stop by Lunch for lunch! Also known by its other name, The Lobster Roll, this Amagansett standby is a must-stop.
We had our hearts set on a big old lobster roll with a toasted buttery bun, and my personal weakness, fried clam strips. We also sprung for onion rings, fried calamari, and a New England clam chowder (what’s that they say about moderation? Hold onto your arteries for this one!).
It was delicious. The marinara was wonderful, the clam strips were perfectly crispy and tender, the clam chowder was full of clams (not overwhelmed by bacon, also!) and the lobster roll was succulent with not too much mayo. A local beer or perhaps a Coke with lemon are the perfect drinks to wash it all down.
We were lucky to sit outside, where a cool breeze soothed our fried food sweats, and we could enjoy the garden.
4. Early Morning Surf Fishing
Surf fishing is probably my dad and his cousin’s favorite summer pastime. They wake up at 6am, blearily gather their fishing gear, and head straight for the beach with the dogs, where they set up rods and a bucket of clams. My dad got lucky one morning and caught a big striped bass (sadly, not big enough to keep––link to New York State saltwater fishing regulations here).
This naturally enticed me to wake up early the next morning to go with them. We caught a couple of smalls, but watching the sun rise, investigating seashells, and playing with Barley and slobbery gentle giant Ripley (our cousin’s Great Dane) was worth the early morning wake up call.
Plus, it may be the case that *thinking* you have a fish when your line is actually just caught on some seaweed is pretty close to being as much fun as actually catching a fish.
5. Tide Pools
There are some great secluded beaches in Montauk. In the early morning, when the tide is low, crabs and horseshoe crabs can be easily spotted and investigated by inquiring minds. I personally am of the opinion that if you don’t explore a tide pool, or check out a mussel-coated rock, you didn’t really go to the beach.
6. Party Boat Fishing (and Enjoying the Catch!)
This was definitely the highlight of the trip! 4 hours in the afternoon spent on a fishing boat. There were lots of families on board—looking for a good time and the thrill of fresh seafood. We got in line early to board, staked out our spot, and the boat chugged out of the dock. We cruised away from shore for an hour, while the mates came around with rods, bait, and a few wise words of instruction. When the horn sounded, hooks and sinkers hit the water! The more skilled fishermen among us advised on feeling for nibbles and setting the hook on the fish to reel them in. Of course my dad (Bill) is the veteran fisherman, but my mom (Judy) is the secret fishing ninja. I tell you, there’s something about that woman—it doesn’t matter where we are, she’s an expert at spotting, picking, and catching free food! Things started off slowly with a sea robin or two, with their big winged fins.
Things got really exciting when we caught our first big fluke! Flat, spotty brown on one side and white on the other, they wiggled their way to the surface.
Other catches included porgies and black sea bass (not including the hooks that got caught on the lines of people on the other side of the boat).
The most exciting part of the day though, had to be when the captain announced that we only had a few minutes of fishing left. Slightly dejected, I thought to myself how much I had wanted to catch a black sea bass to round out my sea robin and fluke. As if someone in the ocean had a microphone to my brain, I suddenly felt a tug on my line, and a large (keeper!) sea bass emerged.
I was feeling puh-retty good and slightly smug when of course, a minute later, Sarah caught a bigger (but only slightly!) sea bass. And then not a minute later, my mom also screeched that she had a fish on the line, and Justin, Sarah’s beau, who for all 2 HOURS of fishing had caught nothing, suddenly had hooked one himself. 4 fish, 3 minutes, and priceless photos to prove it.
On the trip back to the harbor, the mates weigh the fish to see who won the pool for biggest catch, and they filet catches.
They work quickly and purposefully, gutting them, filleting them, and tossing the scraps to the sea gulls who rush the back of the boat to snatch the castaways.
All told, here was our catch, which, naturally we brought back to steam with soy sauce, ginger, and scallion!
7. Local Haunts
There’s a good handful of well-loved restaurants in Montauk and nearby. Some of these we were able to hit on our trip, and others were recommended to me in confidence by friends who are diehard Hamptons-goers. Where we went:- Westlake Fish House: They had a table for a big group of 9 at the last minute, and the food was solid.
- Lunch aka The Lobster Roll (see above)
- Montauk Bake Shoppe: There was a line snaking down the block by 8:15 AM, so you know it’s good. We peeked in later in the day and found they still had some wonderous-looking pies left, but were mostly sold out of everything else, no surprise.
- The Dock: A no-frills old-school spot that serves a handful of daily seafood specials and lots of great bar food. We got fried zucchini crisps, baked clams, clam chowder (very bacon-forward), a fried fish sandwich, and some great mozzarella sticks.
Other places on our list, but didn’t have enough meals in a day for:
- The Crow’s Nest
- Harvest
- Duryea’s
- 668 Gig Shack
- Clam and Chowder House at Salivar’s Dock
- Morty’s Oyster Stand
8. Sampling Fresh Oysters
I’m simultaneously ashamed and proud to note that I enjoyed my first raw oyster! It was briney and smooth and I’m very nervous that I’ve opened a pandora’s box for yet another way to throw more money at food. But I’m not that sad about it. Much is said about lobster, but definitely spring for a half dozen raw oysters!
9. Hiking
We were traveling with family and two dogs, so it was inevitable that we’d hit a trail or two. Shadmoor State Park had a couple of easy trails that weren’t too strenuous and good for dogs and young kids. Go further and you’ll hit a beach!
10. Amagansett
Amagansett is a picturesque town between Montauk and East Hampton. We took an afternoon stroll through to walk off our fried food, and found a great mix of boutiques and cafes, and a particularly excellent record store (Innersleeve Records) where Sarah and I both managed to sidestep a fight over who saw the Jim Croce love songs compilation album first and made off like bandits.
Overall, between Amagansett and East Hampton, Amagansett is more of what I wanted from the area. As for East Hampton, it wasn’t all bad…
11. East Hampton (Where You Can Pretend You’re Ina Garten)
On our way back home, we stopped through East Hampton to live out our Ina dreams. And I have to say, I think we must have been looking in the wrong places, but the main street resembled more of a mall than an adorable hamlet where my favorite Food Network personality hangs out when she’s not chilling with Jeffrey in Brooklyn or Paris.
Though, we still enjoyed checking out the local bookstore (Book Hampton) and spotting Food Network b-roll footage spots like this old windmill (one of many in Long Island)!
We hope this is a helpful guide for planning a few days in Montauk! While summer’s almost over, you’ve got lots of time now to plan an off-season trip or get squared away for next summer! 
